I spoke at Chichester College’s Professional Student Graduation ceremony last night. Students from Marketing, Accountancy, Human Resources and Learning & Development received their certificates and then contemplated their futures. As the guest speaker, this is the heart of the advice I gave them.
1 – Say Yes If You Can
When life offers you an opportunity, grab it with both hands even if it isn’t part of your plan and not what you were expecting. This is particularly important if someone else is saying “I think you would be great at this.” Doing a wide variety of things opens your horizons and makes you more effective.
Opportunities don’t always work out well but they are never wasted. We learn from the bad times as well as the good times. Say yes and make it yours.
2 – When You Say No, Let It Go
If you have to say no to an opportunity don’t waste your time wondering what would have happened differently – you will never know. Sometimes we come across two paths and have to choose which one to go down. Whether you choose the path “less travelled by ” or the massive motorway, travelled by a million people before you, let the other path go.
3 – Stay A Student Forever
You will learn things today that in a few years you will discover are not true. You must keep looking, studying, learning, challenging, testing yourself and what you know. Never give up being a student; it hasn’t finished, it has only just begun.
You can’t see the road ahead, only what is now and what has gone before. You can scream with excitement or you can scream with fear. Your choice – choose excitement.
 Robert Frost, The Road Not Taken